Eleanor Lillian's
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Etiquette & Charm School
Manners today. Confidence for life.
Where children discover the power of kindness, self-respect, and the confidence to move through the world with grace and dignity.
Kindness
Confidence
Cultural Awareness
Compassion
Self-Respect
Positivity
About the program
More than manners, a foundation for life
I created this etiquette program to help children grow into confident, respectful, and emotionally aware individuals. Lessons centered on communication, kindness, courtesy, and cultural awareness help children navigate everyday life with confidence and consideration for others.
This program is designed to help children feel comfortable in different social settings, build meaningful connections, and carry themselves with kindness and confidence wherever they go.
"Etiquette isn't about perfection. It's about confidence and understanding how to move through the world with grace and consideration for others."
This work is about helping children navigate social interactions in a modern world while developing confidence, respect, and strong character that will stay with them for life.
Kindness
The foundation of everything, treating every person with genuine warmth, always.
Confidence
The ability to walk into any room, speak to anyone, and know you belong there.
Cultural Awareness
Moving through our beautifully varied world with curiosity, respect, and grace.
Compassion
Understanding what others feel and responding with care and consideration.
Self-Respect
Knowing your own worth and carrying yourself accordingly, always.
Positivity
Every child deserves a champion. This school is that champion, and every child knows it.
Quarter One · Autumn
Foundations of Manners
"Learning respect & everyday etiquette."
Quarter Two · Winter
Social Skills & Confidence
"How to carry yourself with confidence."
Quarter Three · Spring
Dining, Hosting & Culture
"Respect around the table & the world."
Quarter Four · Summer
Leadership & Life Skills
"Being respectful leaders."
Still with us
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In honor of
Sister Eleanor
Consistently radiating positivity
Sister Eleanor has spent a lifetime showing, not just saying, what it means to be a strong, gracious woman. She is living proof that confidence and warmth are not opposites.
Forever in our hearts
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In memory of
Sister Lillian
Helping and serving others
Stories that teach and stay
What it means to be a confident woman
Sister Lillian had a gift for making lessons feel like gifts. Through her stories, her service, and the quiet confidence she carried, her spirit lives on in every child this school serves.
"Through their stories and their actions, I learned how to treat people. That is the greatest lesson anyone can pass on, and it is the one I am passing on now."
Margaret, Founder — Eleanor Lillian's Etiquette & Charm School
Ready to help your child shine?
Quarter One begins September 14, 2026. Spots are limited, enroll your child today.
About
The Founder's Story
Rooted in purpose,
named with love
Every child deserves someone in their corner, someone rooting for them. This school exists to be exactly that.
About the founder
Born in Jersey City.
Built to serve every child.
Growing up in Jersey City means growing up in the world. From an early age, Margaret was surrounded by people from every walk of life: different cultures, backgrounds, professions, and perspectives all sharing the same city streets.
It revealed something important: the ability to move through different spaces with confidence, to speak to anyone with purpose and poise. That skill changes lives, and not everyone learns it early.
"I wanted to give children what so many of us had to figure out on our own, the tools to walk into any room and belong there."
A deep appreciation for the world's cultures has been shaped through personal relationships, extensive travel, and professional experiences across diverse communities. That understanding is woven into every lesson at this school.
Credentials & Experience
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Certified Etiquette Consultant
International Association of Professions Career College, 2026
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Field Executive & Volunteer
Girl Scouts Heart of New Jersey. Coordinated programs across Hudson, Essex, Union, Somerset and surrounding counties, serving over 26,000 girls and helping build girls of courage, confidence, and character.
Where it all began
Jersey City, New Jersey
One of the most diverse cities in America, and the best classroom for learning how to connect with people across every culture, age, and background.
Cultural awarenessCommunityDiversityResilience
A world perspective
Shaped by people, places & experience
Through personal relationships, travel across many cultures, and professional experience in diverse communities, the founder brings a rich, firsthand understanding of how people connect and show respect worldwide.
Cross-cultural respectGlobal etiquetteEmpathy
The promise
Every child deserves a champion
Kindness and positivity are not extras, they are the foundation. This school exists because every child deserves someone in their corner, believing in them.
Still with us
E
In honor of
Sister Eleanor
Consistently radiating positivity
Sister Eleanor has spent a lifetime showing, not just saying, what it means to be a strong, gracious woman. Her character is steady, her kindness never conditional.
Forever in our hearts
L
In memory of
Sister Lillian
Helping and serving others
Stories that teach and stay
What it means to be a confident woman
Sister Lillian had a gift for making lessons feel like gifts. Through her stories, her service, and the quiet confidence she carried every day, her spirit lives on in every child this school serves.
"Through their stories and their actions, I learned how to treat people. That is the greatest lesson anyone can pass on, and it is the one I am passing on now."
Margaret, Founder — Eleanor Lillian's Etiquette & Charm School
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Kindness
The foundation of everything, treating every person with genuine warmth, always.
02
Confidence
The ability to walk into any room, speak to anyone, and know you belong there.
03
Cultural awareness
Moving through our beautifully varied world with curiosity, respect, and grace.
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Compassion
Understanding what others feel and responding with care, the quiet power Sister Lillian lived.
05
Self-respect
Knowing your own worth and carrying yourself accordingly, the strength Sister Eleanor exemplifies.
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Positivity
Every child deserves a champion. This school is that champion, and every child knows it.
Let's give your child the tools to thrive
Watch your child grow into the confident, kind, and respectful person they are meant to be, through lessons that last a lifetime.
Program
Polite & Proud
A full year of confidence,
kindness & grace
A quarterly enrichment program, not a one-time class. Children grow through levels over time, building skills that stay with them for life.
Up to 8
Students per class
Ages 5–7
Little Learners
Building the joyful foundation of kindness, courtesy, and everyday grace through play, crafts, and hands-on activities.
Warm greetings & magic words
Basic table manners & tea etiquette
Listening, sharing & kindness
Feelings, empathy & compliments
Public behavior & helping others
Year 1 graduation milestone
Greeting adults with confidence
Ages 8–10
Growing with Grace
Developing confident communication, friendship etiquette, and the social skills that open every door.
Confident introductions & handshakes
Dining etiquette & table setting
Friendship respect & empathy
Teamwork, sportsmanship & leadership
Thank-you notes & hosting basics
Year 1 graduation milestone
Mock restaurant & formal table setting
Ages 11–13
Poise & Purpose
Mastering the confidence, leadership, and real-world readiness to walk into any room and shine.
Professional introductions & presence
Fine dining & cultural etiquette
Digital etiquette & reputation
Conflict resolution & peer pressure
Leadership, hosting & public speaking
Year 1 graduation milestone
Formal luncheon & confidence workshop
Quarter One · Autumn
Foundations of Manners
"Learning respect & everyday etiquette."
We start at the very beginning, the courtesies, greetings, and everyday habits that shape how children are seen and how they see others.
GreetingsCommunicationTable mannersKindness
Quarter Two · Winter
Social Skills & Confidence
"How to carry yourself with confidence."
Children build self-esteem, social awareness, and the quiet confidence to navigate any room, equipping them to lead with grace in every setting.
ConfidenceTeamworkDigital etiquettePublic speaking
Quarter Three · Spring
Dining, Hosting & Cultural Etiquette
"Respect around the table & around the world."
Children explore the art of dining and the rich diversity of how the world gathers at the table. From formal place settings to cultural dining traditions, this quarter builds confidence and respect across different social settings.
Table mannersHostingCultural etiquetteFine dining
Quarter Four · Summer
Leadership, Community & Life Skills
"Being respectful leaders."
The final quarter positions etiquette as leadership. Children develop responsibility, community pride, and personal purpose. The year closes with a graduation celebration.
LeadershipCommunityMentorshipGraduation
Parents can enroll quarterly, children grow through levels over time, building on each quarter's skills as they go.
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Ages 5–7
Play-based learning
45
Minutes per session
Lessons come alive through games, crafts, role-play, and hands-on activities designed to make manners memorable and fun.
Ages 8–10
Active participation
45
Minutes per session
Interactive lessons, real-world scenarios, and weekly challenges that build skills children can practice immediately.
Ages 11–13
Real-world readiness
45
Minutes per session
Discussion-led, scenario-based sessions that prepare students for the social and professional situations ahead.
Ready to enroll your Polite & Proud graduate?
Spots are limited to up to 8 students per class. Secure your child's place in the next quarter today.
Enroll
Now enrolling
Quarter One begins
September 14, 2026
Secure your child's spot in the Polite & Proud program, spaces are limited to up to 8 students per class.
Early Bird Special
Enroll by August 10, 2026 and save $25, just $335/quarter instead of $360 — register by August 10.
$360 per quarter · 6 sessions
$335
early bird, enroll by Aug 1
All materials, activities & graduation included
Ages 8–10
Growing with Grace
$360 per quarter · 6 sessions
$335
early bird, enroll by Aug 1
All materials, activities & graduation included
Ages 11–13
Poise & Purpose
$360 per quarter · 6 sessions
$335
early bird, enroll by Aug 1
All materials, activities & graduation included
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Early Bird Discount
Enroll before August 1, 2026 and save $25, a thank-you for being one of our founding families.
Save $25, enroll by Aug 1
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Sibling Discount
Enrolling more than one child? Each additional sibling receives 10% off, because kindness runs in families.
10% off each additional sibling
Small class sizes
up to 8 students per class ensures every child receives individual attention and truly thrives.
Quarterly enrollment
Enroll one quarter at a time, no long-term commitment required to get started.
Questions welcome
Reach us anytime at elecsjcnj@gmail.com, we're happy to help find the right fit.